Category: Married Speak

Respecting My Husband
Written by Kemi Olutunbi

Respecting each other in marriage is important . However in this article I wish to focus on Ephesians 5:33, it  states “However, each one of you also must love his wife as he loves himself, and the wife must respect her husband”. God’s desire is that we enjoy our Marriage and that means doing it […]

Love Worth Fighting For
Kemi Olutunbi

If you are like me, you will find that life is full of ‘blink-and-you-missed-it’ moments; ‘It was February and suddenly it’s September’ type moments. You’d probably be wondering why life can’t just slow down, why you can’t seem to keep track, and you recall the popular saying: “Time and tide awaits no man”, which leaves […]

Created helper
Written by Tinuke Akinbulumo

God created me to be a helper to my husband. He was clear about it. It was not a mistake; it was a deliberate and specific choice that he made. A quick search for the Hebrew word used for ‘helper’ showed that it is used it refers to God’s help. Then, in the New Testament, […]

9 Ways To Love Your Wife
Written by Bode Olutunbi

Why would God ask me to love my wife? I wouldn’t have married her if I didn’t love her! Perhaps it’s because He knows that I need to have a tender heart towards my wife and handle her needs with care. I am learning that loving my wife is critical to my success in life, […]

The Gift of Prayer
Written by: Bode Olutunbi

I am totally convinced that the best gift that we can give our spouse is our prayers.  Let’s consider what we should pray about when we pray for our spouses.  The Importance of Praying as a Couple Perhaps the best starting point on this journey is from the place of thanksgiving. We are able to […]

Praying Together
Written by: Tayo Banwo

We often hear the phrase “A couple that prays together, stays together” this isn’t just a cliché.   Praying is an intimate and personal experience, so the question is why do it with your spouse?  Prayer is a Marriage Purpose One of the key purposes of Marriage is that two people come together to form […]

We don’t fight!
Written by: Tinuke Akinbulumo

People are always surprised when I tell them my husband and I don’t fight or even argue for that matter. But we don’t. We really don’t. This doesn’t mean that we don’t disagree on things, it just means when we disagree we don’t take it to an argumentative level. We agree to disagree and that’s […]

Is it all I thought it would be?
Written by: Ima Duro Emmanuel

So… a friend was asking me the other day if marriage was all I thought it would be. My answer to her was: it was not what I expected it to be but it was more than I hoped it would be. Why do I say that? Well because, as a child growing up I […]