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As a single mother at the time, I knew I had to pray; I would have been foolish not to. I had a lot of ‘demons to fight’, things to […]

During a conversation with a group of friends the other day, we got on to the topics we discuss in our premarital classes. ‘The sex class, how do you do […]

I find it funny how the married people in my life, including my parents, question every friend of the opposite sex I have. Perhaps you’ve had similar questions posed to […]

Do you remember the film, ‘What to expect when you are expecting’? Based on the novel of the same name, the film chronicles the lives of five couples as they each […]

‘Naked’ she said ‘Like I was just out of the bath in my towel and someone snatched it off me. So so vulnerable.’  I was having coffee with my recently widowed […]

I guess from the minute you are born until you complete your university education, the major decisions in your life are made by those who God has entrusted you to.  […]

Whether our sexuality has brought us deep fulfilment or led us into pain, despair, frustration or even boredom, we are created as sexual people in God’s image – male and […]

When your heart is broken, the pain can feel unbearable. What do you do when your world falls apart? Do you sit in the darkness and wallow in self-pity? Or […]

Whilst reading an article some days ago, I recalled a conversation I had with my daughter about role models. She was sharing her thoughts on who her friends’ role models […]

Waiting for the right one can be challenging, especially if you’re ready to find love and settle down. Whilst some people in a soul mate or fairy tale romance, what’s […]

In today’s world, the haves makes an extra effort to distinguish themselves from the have nots. Money is often linked to a number of critical decisions in adulthood. It is […]

It’s interesting how when we are getting married our focus is very much on the individual we are marrying, and so it should be.  But we tend to forget that […]

Self-love is not just a catchy phrase that you see on Instagram and say “Aww” in response. It’s something that millions of people struggle with, including Christians. As a Christian, […]

God designed our sex lives to be enjoyable and fulfilling. When God made a helpmate for Adam, she was suitable, complementary and adaptable to his needs – emotionally, physically and […]

Money and finances in marriage is always a topic that generates intense and interesting discussions amongst married and singletons. The beauty of our Christian walk is that we already have […]

A thought crossed my mind a few weeks back that perhaps I should focus my efforts on developing my communication with my husband. That might seem an obvious thing to […]

A vision of beauty, an eligible bachelor (soon to be un-eligible), a blushing bride, an expectant family, a starry-eyed couple.   The music, the flowers, the hats ooh the hats! […]

 In Exodus 2:15b-22, we see the story of Moses; Moses helped out the daughters of Reuel who were often chased away by the shepherds.  Their father, surprised at how quickly […]

Respecting each other in marriage is important . However in this article I wish to focus on Ephesians 5:33, it  states “However, each one of you also must love his […]

Have you ever found yourself wanting something so bad that it interferes with your life somehow?   Have you ever wanted something so bad you think about it day and […]

If you are like me, you will find that life is full of ‘blink-and-you-missed-it’ moments; ‘It was February and suddenly it’s September’ type moments. You’d probably be wondering why life […]

I haven’t been married very long. In fact, it’s been less than a year since we tied the knot. So when my cousin who’s in the thick of making preparations […]

God created me to be a helper to my husband. He was clear about it. It was not a mistake; it was a deliberate and specific choice that he made. […]

Why would God ask me to love my wife? I wouldn’t have married her if I didn’t love her! Perhaps it’s because He knows that I need to have a […]

A marriage is a divinely ordained opportunity for two people to come together and maximise their strengths while minimising their weaknesses for their better good. Choosing a marriage partner is […]

Marriage is a beautiful experience with the right person and with the right mindset. As you consider marriage, it is important you think carefully about the joys and demands of […]

I am totally convinced that the best gift that we can give our spouse is our prayers.  Let’s consider what we should pray about when we pray for our spouses.  […]

Marriage is a beautiful experience with the right person and with the right mindset. As you consider marriage, it is important you think carefully about the joys and demands of […]

We often hear the phrase “A couple that prays together, stays together” this isn’t just a cliché.   Praying is an intimate and personal experience, so the question is why […]

People are always surprised when I tell them my husband and I don’t fight or even argue for that matter. But we don’t. We really don’t. This doesn’t mean that […]

Nowadays we have easy access to information – most of it online at the click of a button. However, you must have heard the saying ‘a little knowledge is a […]

So… a friend was asking me the other day if marriage was all I thought it would be. My answer to her was: it was not what I expected it […]